Monday, August 01, 2005

Cerita tentang makna seseorang...

Abah ada terima emel dari PB beberapa hari lepas berkenaan satu topik bertajuk "Reason, Season Or A Lifetime...". Menarik juga tulisannya. Abah nak kongsi dengan anda semua hari ni.

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like sent by Allah and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

tq abah.. sgt bermakna buat anim sekarang ni...

Abah Mui'zz said...

Abah wonder kalau anim ada blog untuk abah lawati, sebab kalau tak silap abah, anim antara beberapa orang yang sudi baca omelan abah.

~comei~ said...

blog ada.. tp bukan ilmiah mcm yg abah tulis tu.. lebih pada diari.. http://blog.myspace.com/nis_nim

Abah Mui'zz said...

Oklah tu blog anim, cuma tak boleh nak komen sebab kena register myspace pulak. Abah pun takdelah ilmiah sangat anim, sekadar nak mengomel, dan boleh buat orang berfikir sikit.

~comei~ said...

kalau abah ada rasa nak komen, abah emaillah kat anim.. angah_anim@yahoo.com

mungkin komen tu membina.. dan penting utk anim :)

tqvm..